Sex or Companionship! Pretty simple. These are a couple of the main reasons we search for that certain someone.

Expect & Accept: both these intentions when approaching or being approached by someone! (in the beginning)

Your job whether approaching or being approached is to find out which of these intentions the “other party” has in mind!

1) Expect & Accept: that you’re both interested in meeting someone for a “REASON”.

No one pursues another for no reason. We mainly either pursue another for sex or companionship. Most other reasons branch off of these main 2 intentions.

2) Expect & Accept: to not have enough in common with the other party.

It’s ok to find out the other party that was good looking or well dressed or charismatic from a far isn’t interested in the main reasons you are for pursuing a mate.

Important: If you find you intentions are not the same as the other party’s… “Do not waste time trying to manipulate the others intentions to conform to your own.” Just as important… “Do not consider changing you own intentions to conform to the other party’s.”

Important: Do not judge the other party for having different intentions than you! You goal is to find someone to match your intentions. Do you job and find the other party’s intentions before you do anything else. If you 2 don’t match… Keep it moving and your eye on the prize!

3) Expect & Accept: to read between the lines when finding the other parties intentions.

No! You cannot come right out and ask if someone’s looking for sex or a wedding ring (in the beginning). Remember, there’s a certain amount of dignity that comes with meeting each other. You have to assume the other is interested in you for the same reasons you’re interested in them. This is a sure way to find out their true intentions.

Sex and companionship require different approaches. Because of this, the ultimate intention between you and the other party will be revealed!

4) Expect & Accept: to meet more than one or even some people!

Even if you did meet someone that truly has the same intention you do doesn’t mean you’re compatible! It just means they’re looking for the same thing you are. Yes! Of course you wouldn’t be communicating with them if you didn’t feel they had potential. And to find out their intentions are yours as well IS saying something… BUT(!) it doesn’t mean you’re a match… it just means you felt they had potential and they have the same main interest in pursuing another as you do. If you feel you have a match… PROVE IT!

5) (my personal favorite) Expect & Accept: to truly find that certain someone!

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