Sex or Companionship! Pretty simple. These are a couple of the main reasons we search for that certain someone.

Expect & Accept: both these intentions when approaching or being approached by someone! (in the beginning)

Your job whether approaching or being approached is to find out which of these intentions the “other party” has in mind!

1) Expect & Accept: that you’re both interested in meeting someone for a “REASON”.

No one pursues another for no reason. We mainly either pursue another for sex or companionship. Most other reasons branch off of these main 2 intentions.

2) Expect & Accept: to not have enough in common with the other party.

It’s ok to find out the other party that was good looking or well dressed or charismatic from a far isn’t interested in the main reasons you are for pursuing a mate.

Important: If you find you intentions are not the same as the other party’s… “Do not waste time trying to manipulate the others intentions to conform to your own.” Just as important… “Do not consider changing you own intentions to conform to the other party’s.”

Important: Do not judge the other party for having different intentions than you! You goal is to find someone to match your intentions. Do you job and find the other party’s intentions before you do anything else. If you 2 don’t match… Keep it moving and your eye on the prize!

3) Expect & Accept: to read between the lines when finding the other parties intentions.

No! You cannot come right out and ask if someone’s looking for sex or a wedding ring (in the beginning). Remember, there’s a certain amount of dignity that comes with meeting each other. You have to assume the other is interested in you for the same reasons you’re interested in them. This is a sure way to find out their true intentions.

Sex and companionship require different approaches. Because of this, the ultimate intention between you and the other party will be revealed!

4) Expect & Accept: to meet more than one or even some people!

Even if you did meet someone that truly has the same intention you do doesn’t mean you’re compatible! It just means they’re looking for the same thing you are. Yes! Of course you wouldn’t be communicating with them if you didn’t feel they had potential. And to find out their intentions are yours as well IS saying something… BUT(!) it doesn’t mean you’re a match… it just means you felt they had potential and they have the same main interest in pursuing another as you do. If you feel you have a match… PROVE IT!

5) (my personal favorite) Expect & Accept: to truly find that certain someone!

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By Judsen Culbreth A thorough yet lighthearted guide to online dating, designed primarily to help the over-35 woman browse Internet sites-with confidence, ease, and a sense of adventure-and capture that special someone Online dating is a national phenomenon, with some 30 million people logging on to dating sites each month. Yet many women over 35 still hesitate when it comes to browsing for a mate. That’s exactly how author Judsen Culbreth felt when she found herself single again at age 49, after a 20-year marriage. Overcoming her own trepidation, she decided to take the plunge and post an online personals ad. Not only did she get 84 responses within 2 days, but eventually she found romance and a second chance at love and marriage. Now she draws upon her own online adventures and her vast experience in magazine and TV journalism to provide Boomers and mature GenXers with the guide they need to navigate their way through the three stages of cyber-courtship: defining compatibility, creating chemistry, and closing on commitment.

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User Ratings and Reviews

4 Stars A Fun Read for Dating Boomers …
I enjoyed reading this very much … there is a lot of good information about the online dating experience with resources and ideas. It was a lot of fun to read ….Judsen has an irreverant sense of humor and a quick wit so that you don’t take it all so seriously but can get serious about trying it!

5 Stars Date for Dad
I sent a copy of the book to my dad, not really expecting him to read it. My dad is a terrific guy and recently divorced after 32 years of marriage. I talked with him last night and he mentioned that he was ready to get online and start dating!!!! For my dad to say that is HUGE!!! I’m actually flying out next week to help him set up the computer I am giving to him. I don’t

know if he has ever been on the Internet. He said the book made so much sense and made it sound so easy that he was ready to get out there.

Thank you, Judsen Culbreth, for writing a book that will help my dad find someone just as great as he is.

3 Stars ONLINE DATING IS THE ONLY WAY TO GO!
I am a single baby boomer, and I firmly believe that online dating is the only way to find dates these days. Where else can you find out so much about a person before you actually meet them? This book outlines a program that helps the over-forty crowd navigate the treacherous waters of dating. Most of us have been married for years, and are scared to death. This book helps take the fear out of looking for love on the Internet, and I would highly recommend it. If you’d like to broaden your baby boomer dating information, also try Baby Boomer Bachelorette: How to Have Sex at Least Once More Before You Die. It’s a hoot, and the author treats over-forty dating like producing your own reality show. Lots of fun and lots of great information. She too recommends online dating as the best way to meet potential mates.

5 Stars Recommended for Boomer Women Who Want to Find the Right Man
This is a great book and I highly recommend it if you are in your mid-40s or beyond and looking to find the man of your dreams. Despite the title, the book is geared to women. It’s a great primer to online dating, helping you find your way through dating internet sites, preparing a profile and the steps between getting a “wink” and getting married.

What I also like about this book is that Judsen takes time to help you reflect on past loves and determine what went right and what went wrong. She also takes you through all the steps of setting up your profile and responding to emails on dating sites, as well as “dos and don’ts” that will help you get noticed by the men you really want to attract.

If you are dating, get this book.

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